Trying to take a shower with a baby is tricky but doable. Taking a shower when you have more than one kid is quite literally impossible. At least, it's impossible to take a relaxing one! Also, you might be left with unanswered questions like, "did I put conditioner in my hair?"
Breastfeeding time happens everywhere. There's no sitting in a cafe, relaxing while your kid drinks away. Public restrooms or supermarkets, restaurants or church, if the kid wants to drink, you have no choice.
No matter how beautiful your house it, it will never remain the same once kids are in the house. You can try tidying up. You can even raise kids that take care of their things but if a mess is the only way you can catch a break, then you will love a good mess.
Alone time will be the ultimate gift once you have kids. You’ll dream of weekend breaks away from the kids just to sleep. You'll even dream of catching a disease, just to be quarantined for a week of undisturbed peace.
Rush hour starts way before you hit the road. No matter how much you prep in advance, mornings are often chaotic with a slew of different moods. If you're not a morning person, this will feel very much like hell.