Translation: Stop being nice enough for me to come over, then ignore me when you've had what you wanted. A woman will make this mistake many times but there will be that one day when she will realize you will never give her that chance. That's when she will become immune to your calls and your "niceness."
…Hurts so much, you feel like the world has stopped spinning. Hurts enough to start believing that you can never move beyond this pain. But a woman will and when she does, she will never want to go back to what she had with you.
It takes a lot for a woman to give up on the one she refuses to give up on. Even when she has so many reasons to do so. When she finally does accept the fact that you gave up, despite having a lot of reasons to stay, then it will be hard to give her a reason to change her mind.
...And it takes time for the heart to catch up with the mind. Despite knowing exactly how bad things were. Once that heart changes, however, it's hard to get it back to loving the one person it rejected it.
It sounds fun, doesn't it, when you know there's that girl who's always there, waiting for you to notice her? Knowing that you can break her heart without ever needing to speak to her. That girl won't be there waiting forever.
It's because a woman will try, no matter how much she knows it will hurt. Because she thinks she can change you, even when you are a hard-headed kid who refuses to change. When you refuse to change, then that woman will change, and then she won't ever need you to change. She won't ever need you.
We like to say this with confidence only because we tried to give you something you were missing — someone who cared enough to stick around even when you were a selfish idiot. But the thing is, we won't be here forever. One day, there will be someone who will want to stick around for us and then we'll see how easy love can be.
You're always going to believe that we'll never stop trying. That's because, for a long time, we'll believe that it will be too hard to let go. But we will let go because we'll see that holding on to something that wasn't real is much worse.
It shouldn't be THIS hard. A woman shouldn't have to make a case for noticing her every day. You should know it. You should see it. You shouldn't wait until she finally gives up on you to see what you should have seen all along.
Someone who would have given you everything. When she walks away from you, a woman will know she wouldn't have lost much. You, on the other hand, would have lost someone who adored you, even when you didn’t deserve it.