The chasing game can be an exciting one for the one who wants to get you to notice. Hell, it’s fun for the ones playing hard to get. You don’t need to be too cruel, but saying no sometimes or leaving them wanting more could be key to making someone fall in love with you.
When someone tells us how good we smell, it’s always a great compliment. Your scent is a sensory experience for the one pursuing you so make sure that you always smell good. It doesn’t mean you have to use perfume. Even the way your clothes smell and your hair smells can be enough to make someone long for you.
We all love it when someone we care about remembers random things we said. Having a solid memory can help you to score the love of your life. Remembering things, especially the little things show how much you listen and how much you care — enough to remember what the other person said.
Now, in order for you to remember things, you must first listen to them. Listening shows that you care enough for the person. You’re showing him or her that you’re actively into whatever it is they’re saying. It’s easier to fall in love with someone when you see them using their time to listen to what you say.
This doesn’t mean you need to conform to a specific standard of beauty. But yes, a person has to be physically attracted to you. Thankfully, everyone is attracted to different things and what’s not appealing for one person is super attractive for another.
Kindness goes a long way and it’s something we all want to see more of. Being kind will make you far more attractive. It’s not just the person you want to attract that you should be kind too but to everyone around you. Your kindness will attract more people to you.
You don’t have to be an ass. You don’t need to list all your accomplishments. But yes, being confident in what you do, in your beliefs and in your body, is a quality that can get more people to fall in love with you.
Much like listening and memory, attentiveness proves to the other person that you care enough to stop and see what the other needs. This is a great quality and it suggests longevity. We want many things in a relationship but mostly, we want someone who will be attentive and know when to be there for us.
Research have proven that women are more attracted to men with symmetrical faces. It seems that this is an unconscious decision women make. It is believed that symmetry suggests “genetic health.” You don’t really have control over this one. You either have a symmetrical face or you don’t. If it’s the latter case, you could try talking to girls from the side, just in case.
Sharing and being there are important qualities but what will also make you attractive is having your own life. This means being busy with your own work and your own hobbies. You don’t need to be hovering and expecting entertainment from your significant other all the time.
Don’t cry every day. Please, don’t. But don’t hide all your emotions either. Being strong is good but for someone to fall in love with you, they need to see that you are vulnerable too, despite how strong you are.
A study has revealed that people prefer their significant other to have the same set of values and outlook on life. You don’t have to be an exact replica of one another but it seems having similar ideas is better for a relationship. I guess opposites really don’t attract.
Taking care of yourself suggests a number of things. It means you love yourself enough to keep looking good. It also means you want to live a long life and you want to look good for your significant other. Don’t let yourself go when you are in love, looking good is important to keep the physical attraction alive.