Breakups suck. But nothing sucks more than wondering how the other person feels about you. Do they still love you? Do they still care? And while we all wish that we could be a mind reader, especially when it comes to relationships, there are a couple of signs that can give you insight into what your ex is thinking and if they miss you.
If you keep on accidentally running into your ex at social events, it might not be an accident! Even if you guys have the same friends and are in the same social circle, there's a chance your ex could be planning run-ins on purpose. If they keep on peeking glances at you from across the room, then they're probably pining away for you!
Conversely, if your ex found someone new almost a little too fast and is throwing it in your face, it could be a sign that they're acting out and want you to feel jealous. The showier the relationship, the less it's real love.
After a breakup, it's probably best to not stalk your ex's social media, as it can lead to torture and pain. But if your ex seems to be willingly putting themselves through that torture and pain by liking your posts on social media, you can be sure that they're missing you. They're likes mean they still like-like you.
If your ex texts or calls you, it only means one thing - they're thinking of you. And if they call or text you late at night, it only means two things — they're thinking of you and they're thinking of something else.
If you tell your ex you're seeing someone new and their response is to criticize that person, then it's a pretty good sign they still have feelings for you. Nobody is good enough for you because nobody is them.
If your ex keeps on bringing up the good times you had together, they could be missing those times they won't stop mentioning. Chances are, they want to relive that amazing time at the beach last summer...with you specifically and not anyone else.
In fact, if your ex mentions missing anything about you — and not just the times you shared — it's a telltale sign they've been thinking about you. If they keep on bringing up your cute, lil' laugh, they want to hear more of it. Looks like someone's not over you!